How to Gift Well Through the Summer

The other day, a friend sent me a cake recipe and wrote, “I’d love this for my birthday.” She wasn’t hinting or asking — just passing along something that sounded delicious.

I realized I’d be seeing her the day before her birthday, so I ran to the store, grabbed the ingredients, and baked it. (It turned out so good, by the way.)

She was completely surprised — but more importantly, she felt seen and loved. All from a simple cake.

It reminded me that thoughtful gifts don’t have to be expensive or elaborate. Often, it’s the small, unexpected gestures that leave the deepest impact. That cake was a reminder to pay attention, go out of your way, and live out loud — especially with little eyes watching.

On the ride home, my kids talked about what they saw: two women showing up for each other with love, intention, and joy. They noticed. They learned something about how we care for the people around us.

And that’s the heart of give with joy.
It’s not about perfect gifting or always being on top of things.
It’s about creating tools that help you connect, celebrate, and savor life’s sweetest moments — especially in the middle of ordinary days and noisy headlines.

If you're looking for ways to gift well this summer — here are some simple, joyful ideas to get you started:

1. Make a summer birthday list and prep ahead.
   Take a few minutes to jot down upcoming birthdays — neighbors, friends, family, and those easy-to-forget dates that sneak up on you. Prep cards and gifts in advance, and if you’re feeling extra on top of things, go ahead and wrap them now.

2. Keep your “gift shelf” stocked.
   Fill a small bin with cards, small treats, favorite candles, or other go-to gifts. Then when someone needs love, you’re ready — no last-minute store run needed.

3. Say yes to the nudge.
   If someone casually mentions something they love or need — surprise them with it. Even if it’s just a piece of their favorite candy or a $5 coffee card. Small doesn’t mean insignificant.

4. Let your kids lead.
   Ask them who they’d like to surprise — and help them make a plan. Maybe it’s chalking a driveway, baking cookies, or writing notes to family members. They’re capable of so much kindness when we make space for it.

5. Gift an experience.
   Invite a friend’s child over for a backyard water day. Surprise someone with an “ice cream on us” coupon. Host a summer birthday breakfast picnic. Experiences often outlast the stuff.